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10 Aug

Summary of the Sermon by Pastor Irwan Fransiskus, at Bethany International Service, on Sunday, 6 Aug 2017.

Prayer of Jabez

The prayer of Jabez teaches us how to depend on God and to call upon Him.

1 Chronicles 4:9-10 – Jabez was more honourable than his brothers, and his mother named him Jabez saying, “Because I bore him with pain.” Now Jabez called on the God of Israel, saying, “Oh that You would bless me indeed and enlarge my border, and that Your hand might be with me, and that You would keep me from harm that it may not pain me!” And God granted him what he requested.

Jabez’s mother gave birth to him in pain. She named her son “Jabez”, which means “pain.” Perhaps she led a painful life, so she decided to name her son “pain” literally. Jabez’s prayer is made up of four parts. First, Jabez asks God to bless him. Second, he asks God to enlarge his territory or increase his responsibility. Third, he prays that God will be with him and stay close. Lastly, Jabez asks that God keep him from harm so that he will be free from pain.

The Bible mentions that he was an honourable man because of his prayer.

1. Jabez asked God to bless him.
Jabez understood that the blessings of Abraham in Genesis 12:2 – ask the Lord to bless us to glorify Him. Jabez understood the purpose of God’s blessings. Jacob wrestled with an angel at the Jabbok river until he was blessed (Genesis 32:26).

Power, fame, wealth, beauty and health cannot satisfy us. We can learn from the life of famous people like Marilyn Monroe, Michael Jackson, Thierry Costa and Getulio Vargas. They did not find the meaning of life in their status, and these successful people ended up committing suicide.

2. Jabez prayed for God to enlarge his border so that God’s hands may be with Him.
Jabez understood the prayer of Moses in Exodus 33:15 “If Your presence do not go with us, do not bring us from here”.

If the Lord is with us, His favour is also with us. It is very important to stay close to God and rely on His continued support and guidance throughout our life.

3. Jabez asked God to keep Him from harm.
Jabez clearly knew and prayed specifically to the One who could protect him from evil and pain, 1 Chronicles 4:10 – Keep me from harm so that it might not bring me pain. The Hebrew word for harm in this verse correlates with 1 Corinthians 10:1-11 – these are the examples of harm or “evil”.

How do we keep ourselves away from harm/evil? There are four examples of the word “harm/evil” in the Bible:

1. Idolatry – anything we love more than God is our idol.
It could be our hobby, our occupation or even the love of chasing money (Ecclesiastes 5:9-10, Ephesians 5:5).

2. Sexual immorality is a sin we must avoid.
We live in a world where society is experiencing moral degradation, where same sex marriage is legal in some countries. Genesis 49:2 records that Ruben slept with his stepmother (one of Jacob’s wives) and as a result Ruben was denied of his first-born birth right.

Lot and his daughters committed incest, and their two descendants from this relationship resulted in constant battles between the Israelites and the Moabites and Ammonites (Genesis 19:32).

3. Putting God to the test is to demand God to prove Himself to us in our own way.
Pastor Mark Wolford, from the US State of Virginia, was bitten by a rattle snake and was killed during a church service for putting God to test. He was well-known for handling dangerous snakes in a test of faith. We need to practise godly discernment by not doing dangerous acts to demonstrate God’s protection upon us. When we view God through our doubt and demand something of Him as a way of determining whether or not He can be trusted, we are in danger of testing God.

In the Bible, there are examples of both acceptable and unacceptable kinds of testing God. It is acceptable to “test” God concerning tithes and offerings (we give because we have faith in Him), for example, but unacceptable when the test is to demand something from God to prove Himself to us because we lack faith in Him.

4. Grumbling is a harmful attitude and it is evil in the sight of God. Proverbs 20:19 It is that faith-inspired action of obedience that God loves. As seen in the example of Israel’s journey out of Egypt, they developed a habit of grumbling.

How do we value the love of Christ in our life? God has given us everything, even His precious blood on the Cross (John 3:16). There is no greater love than the love of Christ. Jacqueline Kennedy’s love letter to the British Ambassador to the US, was sold in an auction for a price for USD$190,000. The Bible is God’s love letter to us, and is priceless. Our food is to do the will of God and to accomplish His work, John 4:34. Let us work out our salvation and work for food that endures to eternal life (John 6:27).

At the end of the prayer of Jabez, it is clear that God approved of this faithful prayer by granting it. It is also important to see that Jabez was passionate in his plea to God: "He cried out to the God of Israel." God wants to hear that we need Him through passionate prayer.



22 Nov



What is your view about the successful and unsuccessful? Maybe it should people who succeed are those who never have failed and never fall. Then there is another question: Are there people in this world never fails? So if you say no, then the people who succeed are those who have fallen / fail, do not give in to failure, get up and keep trying.

Today we will reflect on the measure of success. A success is not a situation that a lot of treasures, always appear in public, became a favourite for many people. It is all the result of a success and also point of test / processes from God for success. Success is the ability to remain strong in the problems, persevere in the issue, the issue fought and won on the issue. This process will be useful for shaping the humble with and in God’s guidance.

David was the king who was the figure and examples of successful people. In his life he often falls up in the problems, the ups and downs in sin, but he never gave up and always seek God and His guidance, so at the end of his life, David was described as successful.

Let today we have a new paradigm of the meaning of the word success. That success is a strength, perseverance, struggling over the issue. Therefore, if you are in a major or minor issue, smile because there is a success awaits you.

TODAY’S WORD: Psalm 37:23-25, NKJV

23 The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord, and He delights in his way. 24 Though he falls, he shall not be utterly cast down; For the Lord upholds him with His hand. 25 I have been young, and now am old; Yet I have not seen the righteous forsaken, nor his descendants begging bread.


“Though he falls, he shall not be utterly cast down; For the Lord upholds him with His hand.”  (Psalm 37:24)


When a problem is hitting you, never give up, be assured that you will see a rainbow of love from God.


Problem may come up, but those who hope in the Lord will never fall lying, because God upholds them with His hands.

[Taken from Today’s Word by Ps Djohan Handojo and Team]



Morning: James 4

Night: Ezekiel 18-19


9 Mar

Psalms 119:103-106

103 How sweet are your words to my taste, sweeter than honey to my mouth! 104 I gain understanding from your precepts; therefore I hate every wrong path. 105 Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path. 106 I have taken an oath and confirmed it, that I will follow your righteous laws.

Today’s Inspiration

In one of the games at the children playground, we can find guidance about how to play the game. Children need to read and pay attention to it so that they can play. Most probably they will not be able to achieve high scores in their first try, even though they had read the guidance carefully. They need to really understand the guidance and practice continuously.

Believers also have guidance in their lives. That life guidance must be read in detail in the Scripture. All things that are necessary for this life are written there. That guidance is enough until the end of our journey in this life. To make use full of it, we cannot just stand still. We need to actively read, listen, learn, and do it.

Without guidance from the Lord, the lives of men will head towards destruction. Without the proper guidance, we will be lost and waste a lot of time and valuable chances in our lives. The Lord knows that living in the world that is a total stranger to us must be really hard. And that is why He prepared for us to bright lamp so that we will not get lost and take the wrong direction.

Unfortunately, we often do not care about it. Often we just ignore it. We do not want to use the way of the Lord in dealing with the world. We think with our way of thinking, with our intelligence, and with our wisdom, thinking that we can face the world. Instead of knowing the genuine Truth, we prefer to seek the truth of men. Instead of hearing the Truth that reprimands and changes us, we prefer to hear false tales that please our ears. Instead of doing the Truth of the Scripture, we choose to prefer our own righteousness. How foolish are we!

Today’s Reflection

  1. Do you not care and use the guidance from the Lord? If yes, and if not, why?
  2. Do you believe the Truth of the Lord’s guidance for your life? How sure are you? What is the evidence?

Today’s Action

Follow the right guidance and you will live!

Today’s Word

“Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path.” [Psalms 119:105, NIV]